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Don’t cry because it’s over

Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.       -Dr. Suess

Some of us are good with change. I’ve met people, always at work it seems, that proudly claim to be Claim Agents. They wear this self-proclaimed title like a flag. And good for them, I say. More power to you and all that.  But there come times when it would be nice that instead of stirring that big pot of life, could we just keep things at a simmer for a couple hours?

But even a slow simmer person as myself will admit that life changes can bring excitement and renewal. My job has recently moved to another location which has me driving over a hundred miles round trip each workday. On the suck scale, I’d give the commute an eight out of ten. But truth be told, once I’m settled in at my desk, I kinda love it. Surrounded by windows now instead of the prior florescent-lighted cube farm environment. Great co-workers and a rewarding job at a good company. It really is pretty great. They pay me to show up and work, not to say nice things. So they get that one for free.

Micron and Karsen sporting their
matriculation capes

But some change is bittersweet. We’ve all encountered that, haven’t we? Good and not so good all mixed together. Last Friday was one of those for us.

Micron is now off to advanced training at CCI’s North Central Regional Center. Dog college, so to speak. Our work with him is done and we’ve said our good-byes. 

Isn’t that hard to do, we’re asked, to give them up?  The answer is a hearty yes. Indeed, it’s tough to do, to return the dog to CCI. But you know, if it were easy, then honestly, something ain’t right. You might think that we fall madly in love with these fuzzies somewhere over those fourteen to sixteen months we have them. Not true, I say. That magic moment actually happens when you pick up the eight week old cotton ball and look into those brown eyes for the first time. Mutual trust, respect and admiration. And isn’t that the meat-and-potatoes of  true love?

So what the heck are we doing here? Why throw ourselves so willingly into all this drama and  emotional gymnastics?  I couldn’t possibly answer this for any other puppy raiser. Of the thousand plus CCI puppy raisers out there, each could share their own motivation. But as a personal expert on, well, my personal self, let me share my vision.

I see . . .

  • A young person with the confidence to attend college and live independently with their companion. 
  • A dog who provides comfort that they are there by your side for only one reason. You.
  • A dog creating a social bridge for a child with a disability. Who perhaps finds it easier to make new friendships with their dog by their side.
  • A person who is no longer afraid to travel. Who no longer sleeps in the hotel chair, but instead can get a good night’s sleep knowing their Hearing Assistance dog will wake them in case of a fire alarm or a knock on the door.
  • A dog in an elementary school classroom. Laying quietly as the kids practice their flashcards on his side.

So, what is Micron’s destiny? How’s he going to do at CCI U?  Dunno yet.

But know what?  I bet he’ll make us proud whatever he chooses to do.

Hey Karsen, let’s go scope out the cute chicks at CCI U.
You thinking brunettes or blondes?

College boys, Micron (CCI U) and Derek (BGSU)

Crying towel, a gift from fellow puppy raiser, Elisa.
A gift from Mars’ puppy raiser, Marianne.

The Matriculating M’s

Micron at Lookout Point, the highest elevation in Dayton.

When we’re out and about with Micron, he has folk so impressed with his fabulous manners that we sometimes get requests to train their dogs for them. Or mayhaps would the same behavioral techniques work on kids, too?

Of course, we have to gently answer with a big fat No to both queries. We’re not professional dog trainers and well, we only had one kid to practice our parenting skills on, so no profundity to share on that topic either.

So how do we know what to do with this CCI pup? Who trains the trainer, that is?

Well, our CCI family does. As volunteer Puppy Raisers (PR’s in CCI-speak) we have a network of rather knowledgeable folk that are there to help us every paw step of the way. The CCI Puppy Raiser Coordinator is our first line expert. Suzanne is just a phone call away to advise me on how to quiet a very vocal puppy or to troubleshoot a dog that can’t seem to hold his licker. (Micron’s Pavlovian response to seeing a tot in a stroller is to lick his lips in anticipation of a full face slurpfest. Not a behavior becoming of a service dog, you know.)

The local chapter group with other PR’s is something we couldn’t live without, either. We have access to folk who are raising their eleventh CCI puppy. Or their seventeenth.  Or how about that dedicated couple working on pup #32.  Wow.  So whatever puppy nonsense may be going on in your house with the furball in your charge, you know someone else has had a very similar experience somewhere along the line.

But we’re a big group, this CCI family. A nationwide organization, Canine Companions for Independence is of the oldest and largest of the service dog providers. And truly, the connections I enjoy most is interacting with the other PR’s from my pup’s litter.

We talk, we share. Do the littermates share any personality styles? Sure, but each is still unique. To unify this extended family, fellow PR, Marianne, has coined the term dogs-in-law, and I think that fits quite nicely.

Micron at B&N ready to show off his manners. And good looks.

Over the past eighteen months the PR’s of the amazing M litter have been sharing photos and stories.  And now, we’re providing emotional support as we prepare to return these beautiful dogs back to CCI to finish their training. This week, on either May 13 or 14, the M litter puppies will be matriculating into CCI’s Advanced Training program. We’re sending them off to dog college, so to speak.

How do we give them back? With a box of tissues and a lot of pride. And the support of like-minded people who are now part of our family.

We caught up with five of Micron’s littermates and their PR’s. Here are Madden, Mars, Molina, Madias and Meryl and their PR’s as they share some photos, thoughts and their hopes for the future.

Madden
PR’s Regina and Dave share these words about their pup, Madden.
What to say about Madden . . . he is beautiful inside and out. Our Zen dog who is gentle, and sweet and soulful, and loves to carry items around the house – not chewing but just carrying and bringing them to you and gently waiting until you take them. He works with special children each week and is at ease which puts them at ease. Did I mention he is sweet?

Madden is pup #9 for us and by far the hardest for me to return. He is deliberate and slow and mellow and thoughtful and that is what I will miss. Being around Madden is very calming; I think he can do anything he wants – Skilled Companion, Service Dog, or Facility Dog. But not Hearing Dog. as he does not have nearly the drive or energy.

A dream to raise and loves the outside playing with other pups, but perfectly content by your side. Our hope for Madden is that he is matched with someone who will appreciate what he has to offer and our CCI Northeast Regional Center is so very good at making those matches.
Mars
Mars
Mars is being raised in Denver by PR Marianne and John. I giggled when I read this. She could have easily been describing Micron instead of Mars.
He LOVES to carry things and will try to take something out of my hand if he thinks he should carry it for me. I keep telling him it’s MY decision, not his. My favorite is when he carries the blue plastic recycling bin back to my office after I take it out to empty it. He is SOOOO pleased with himself. He is also the snuggliest puppy we’ve had and will crawl into my lap with his teddy bear.

I asked Marianne how she thought Mars might wow the CCI trainers. See “carrying things” above.  Also, should they need a tennis ball retrieved from anywhere, Mars is the dog for the job. He’s a bit obsessive about tennis balls and has stalked people at the gym who have tennis balls in their gym bags. This is not a good thing.

Puppy Mars
And hopes for his destiny? John and I hope he graduates, of course. I think he’d be a dynamite Facility Dog, but I trust the trainers to determine his major once he settles in at college.  As long as he ends up with someone who will love the stuffing out of him we will be happy.

We feel incredibly lucky to have raised a rare black fluffy! Especially one as funny and sweet as Mars. He is a one-of-a-kind dog in so many ways and even though he’s our 7th, the final goodbye at CCI on the 14th is going to wrenching for John and I. Puppy #8, Rocket, better be on his toes because we are going to need some serious adorable to go home to!
Speaking of dogs-in-law, Mars recently traveled across the country to New Jersey for a doggy reunion with littermate Madden. You can read more of this adventure on Mars’ blog at:  Mars’ DogBlog – Reunion!
Madden (L) and Mars (R) together again
Molina
PR Michael shared these photos of the Molina, a yellow fluffy who shares some good looks with Micron.
Molina at six weeks
Molina attending a dog show
Madias
We’re seeing some fluffy similarity in the good looks department here too. Madias is being raised by MaryAngela in New York.
Madias at six weeks
Madias enjoying the country life  (is that a John Deere collar?)
Madias
Meryl

I’ve just recently caught up with Kim, the PR of lovely Meryl, who has created a video showing a day in the life of a CCI puppy-in-program.  Spend a few of minutes to watch beauty in motion. A very nicely done video. Enjoy . . .

A day in the life with Meryl

Yaxley’s Four for Four

The little Lord Yaxley is now four months old. Let’s celebrate this adorable yeller feller’s milestone with four things about him:

1. Yaxley has a ridge on his muzzle.

Call it a cowlick or a Rhodesian ridge-nose or whatever you want. A little line of fur on top of his nose is growing in a different direction. Went we brought him home from CCI, I spent the first couple of days trying to rub that funny little smudge off before I realized that it was indeed a permanent part of him.

That’s right, it took me two days to figure that out.

Think of the mom spitting into a tissue and rubbing dirt off her kid’s face. It was kinda like that.

 
2. He has three black nails and one clear on each front paw.

Yaxley is a 50-50 lab/golden cross. His mother is the beautiful Keara, a golden retriever, and dad is a black lab, Hickman.  I won’t even try to bluster my way into pretending I understand a thing about canine genetics. Coat color, dudley noses, toenail color and all that.

I’ll just say that black toenails on a pup are not my favorites on grooming day. Dog Toenail Clipping for Dummies is not the book I need to have on hand. I need the one for klutzes.

3. He is from a litter of eleven.

The Yuletide Y Litter was born on December 22, 2010.  Breeder/caretaker Susie Nash is absolutely awesome – in the purest sense of the word.  She whelped this litter and cared for the newborns until they were eight weeks old and ready for their puppy raisers. Yaxley showed up crate trained, responding to his name and following the Sit and Here commands. And much more that is making my part of puppy raising so much easier. And she made this magic with eleven puppies. During the Christmas season.

As a volunteer.

Awesome.
 

Puppy flower
(photo courtesy of Susie Nash)

Each pup in a CCI litter shares the same first letter for their names.

The Y’s ready for their health check by the CCI veterinarian.
(photo courtesy of Susie Nash)

The Yuletide Y littermates of Yaxley are:

Yolie
Yalu
Yarrow
Yoda
Young
Yankee
Yukiko
Yves
Yosemite
Yashira

Nine yellows and two blacks. Six male puppies, five female. In the photo above, Yaxley is the pup in the green collar on the far left.


4. Yaxley is not afraid of running with the big dogs.

He is, however, concerned with being run over by the big dogs. During some energetic play sessions, he’ll hang back and use me as his personal bodyguard by sitting between my feet.  Like the kid brother who wants to join the football game, but knows he’ll just get creamed out there.

Now this isn’t a lack of confidence, you know. This fellow can strut through a new situation with his tail held high. Bring it on, World, he says, I’m ready for ya.  It’s more of an awareness of self-preservation. Any ordinary puppy would be right out there joining the melee – and doing gymnastic-style somersaults with every impact. It’s the clever ones that can analyze the situation and know when the odds are not in their favor.

And Yaxley is one smart little puppy.

Table for three, please

 After I fed the boys their kibble this morning, Micron came up to tell me how much he enjoyed his bowl. Just the right crunch, he says, wagging his plume tail into my coffee mug,  absolutely delicious stuff.

Then he released a full two-second burp in my face. While holding a dirty sock in his mouth. Ah lovely, thanks so much for sharing that spring blossom with me, Micron.

Compliments to the chef and all that. Better out than in, as they say.

The boys watching dinner prep like it’s a sushi bar or something.

As puppy raisers, CCI tasks us with introducing thirty commands and behaviors to these pups. We work towards proficiency of the basics any well-trained dog would know – sit, down, wait.  Then some higher end behaviors like being comfortable walking by the handler’s side on either the right or left. And Under, which we use to tell the pup to go under a restaurant table and lie down.

Now these are labs, goldens or a cross between the two breeds.  Chow hounds, all of them.  (Well, most of them.  I’ve heard of the occasional pup that is a picky eater, but those stories do tend to lean towards the anecdotal.) A food motivated dog is a dog that is easy to work with. And with kibble eaters like these, you learn behaviors, too.  Like spelling out the words hungry and eat while making dinner plans with a fellow human bean.

So while we don’t really have a command to Eat Kibble, we do ask the dogs to maintain a level of self-control at mealtime. To help prepare them for their service dog careers, it’s important that they know how to sit quietly with a full bowl of kibble in front of them and wait for the release command from their handler.

crunch crunch crunch crunch crunch [burp] crunch

Ok, I will admit that in my youth I had no idea this was even possible. Mealtime with the pet dogs involved a quick finger count after the bowl was set on the floor. What a difference a Wait command can make.

And if you need convincing that dogs can indeed tell time, just put them on a strict feeding schedule. And their doggy circadian rhythm takes over. These boys get fed at seven o’clock in the morning and again at seven o’clock at night. The new guy, Yaxley, gets a noon meal as well, until he gets a little more room in his adorable puppy gut to move the kibble through. Not that that blows the minds of the older dogs or anything.

‘Scuse me, Food Lady?  I asked for a private table.

So indeed, whatever I may be doing in the evenings, I’m never alone. Every room I enter, twelve paws are echoing my steps. These are my bestest buddies. Until chow time, of course.  After the kibble goes down the gullet, they’re like uncles at Thanksgiving looking for a comfy spot to loosen the belt and take a nap.

Sleeping off the kibble.

At a recent CCI presentation, I was asked about any tips for housebreaking a pup. My advice? Portion control feedings on a tight schedule – never free feed. If you know what’s going in and when, well then it’s just a matter of time until it makes its way on out. Easy nuff, logically speaking, to forecast your pup’s recycling schedule.

Hey Food Laaady!  It’s seven o’clock!

It’s good to have a household of chow hounds. Never a complaint about what’s set in front of them. Always appreciative and more than willing to compliment the chef in their special doggy way. And of course, that’s just fine with me.

Ya know, the sooner we get these groceries put away, the sooner we can E-A-T.
They call me Chicken Legs.  Dunno why.

Blogosphere dogoschmere

I’m excited to share with y’all that I am the humble recipient of the Stylish Blogger Award this past week as awarded by fellow blogger and CCI puppy raiser Elijah.

Elijah joined the blogosphere about a year ago to share his experiences while raising his first CCI pup, Dembre, on his website Miraculous Journey.  It’s always wonderful to receive recognition and I do so appreciate receiving this award.  Be sure to check out Miraculous Journey to get the latest acts of derring-do by the amazing Dembre.

Recipients of the Stylish Blogger Award are tasked with two important requirements. First, to pay it forward and recognize a fellow blogger that deserves the honor.  I’m passing this award on to Vickie at LovesTailWags, who is a kindred spirit in this puppy raising stuff. Her website is a colorful photo journal that takes you into the life of a puppy raiser. Just check out how she tells her story.
The second requirement is to list seven things about the subject of your blog. I’m thinking instead of talking about the dogs this time around, let’s bullet-point a few things I’ve discovered about the puppy raising experience over these past couple of years.

7 things about being a volunteer puppy raiser for Canine Companions for Independence

  1. I smell like dog biscuits. All the time.
  2. Once I called the kid by one of the dogs’ names.
  3. Maybe it was more than once.
  4. Never take the pup into the grocery with you if you’re short on time.
  5. The folk at the library still ask about Inga, the first CCI pup we raised. But they don’t remember my name.
  6. People ask us all the time for dog behavior advice like we know what we’re doing or something. These CCI pups are just that good.
  7. I love this job so much, I’d do it for free. Which, of course, is how this volunteer stuff works, you know.
Gotcher back, kid

And more news to share . . .

We hit a rather cool milestone this week with the dog blog. An incredible 5,000 page hits since I started writing this a few months ago. Wow and thanks to everyone who takes the time to read about our puppy raising experiences. I’d like to think that I’ve met our purpose of  helping to raise awareness of Canine Companions for Independence and that we have this job of volunteer puppy raising looking like the party that it is. (Sure, most of those web hits are my mom, but I’m willing to take what I can get.)

You ever get the feeling you’re being watched?

Raising a Super Dog is linked to other service dog related websites, which is what we refer to in the corporate world as networking. We might also call it synergy or a win-win or some other over-used buzzy word. But it’s through this family of shared interests that our blog has found regular readers across the US, as well as Australia, India, Canada, and even the Netherlands. And here’s a special shout out to that reader in Bangor, Maine that I like to fantasize in Stephen King.

Micron’s littermate, Mars, has a dog blog as well. He writes his in the first person on the Denver Channel  Mars’ Dogblog.  Some very entertaining thoughts as they come from this four legged furball.  As an example of this networking stuff, Mars recently shared a posting I put out last December about how the comparison of puppy raising to Rambam’s Ladder of Charity. Yeah, so it’s more of a thousand word essay than a succinct blog posting, so you’ll want to grab a Diet Coke before you sit down to read it.

Ya think you could tone it down just a notch?

I’m taking an educated guess that if you’re here, you’re a dog lover of sorts. An appreciator of all things canine and perhaps especially impressed by the incredible ways that an assistance dog can impact a life. In the blog roll in the right hand panel are other folk, just like us, sharing their unique points of view. Some as puppy raisers, others as service dog teams. There’s even one written by a mom who is on the waiting list for an assistance dog for her son. Every time I check out a new post on these sites, my world gets a little bigger. Just amazing stuff all around.

Struttin’ da stuff
Um, a little help here?

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Don’t you have any plum sauce for this?